Everyone said and did that we live in a family and when our wife / husband gets married then that is the closest thing. We all want to have a happy marriage and have a prosperous life.
Looking at the design of the following chart is a highlight…
The first house represents our self who we are and how we interact with the world
The seventh house represents the spouse, relationships and how we treat others.
The first (first) house is opposite to the 7th (seventh) house. This means that they are completely contrary to nature and this is a mirror reflection of our nature of which you are not aware and most uncomfortable and your husband is going to tell you. By definition we and the significant other are a balance that we need to achieve in life.
Now imagine that we have to deal with someone who is an opposite reflection of our own mirror (this may not happen if there is a favorable effect) on a daily basis.
E.g. You may have a wish and want to do something this morning… Now your spouse wants to do it in the evening or just doesn’t want to do it or wants to do it the next day. How it would feel .. It would be difficult to take a completely opposite view of what we want. Since 7th house is also for partnership… we need to work continuously… to come on a normal basis .. if we want a balanced relationship .. in some ways like we have with spouse / husband There is a need to do the same.
In some ways most of us need to constantly work on relationships, those who have good relationships can work on it subconsciously. For those who have issues and difficult times .. maybe it should be an indicator that can start to manage the relationship with thoughts more than feelings. In Love Marriage we bring feelings first in relationships, so it becomes difficult to come to the common ground.
For example, if one person is optimistic for this reason, the other person becomes highly pessimistic, if one person is over-spending, the other person will be overly thrilled. They don't want to be overly pessimistic or thrust, they are just trying to balance it and mess up the relationship .. so if we are balanced that's a step in the right direction.
Some things I've learned over time ..
1) Be a good listener. Most arguments occur when a person does not listen / understand fully and starts arguing. Try it, you will be surprised how many arguments can be avoided.
2) Life is a joint venture .. The more you stay together, the more you will realize. Help where ever you can in some ways you are helping yourself.
3) We need to help each other grow. If we are not helping then there is a good enough reason for people to keep distance from each other.
Why 2 people with the purpose of a better life is not fair to agree on things that will affect both them and their future.
I was recently watching a program on how male and female brains work. We get wired differently since development..but it may not be different when we look in the professional environment, but maybe when we are in personal relationships those things come to the surface.
In more cases than men, women are better with colors .. so women should stop expecting to be able to negotiate the beauty of colors.
Women are better with faces in more cases .. They can remember more faces than men .. So if men keep forgetting people and how they look, then you should not work hard for it.
It is believed that men are good at working with guidelines, structurally, trying to fix things can focus on one task at a time to accomplish it.
Since some skills are complementary, it makes both of them as a winning team when they work together. In today's world we need each other's skills to be able to support our family and prosperity. Build a winning team instead of defeating yourself, because there are many differences that are sometimes difficult to make /
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